The Muddled Mind

We are generation of confused people. We want fame but still we don't want to be recognised. We want changes or different results but still we continue to do exactly same old things. We all want to do big things in life but cannot finish our regular chores. We want to be loved but still can't love something or someone religiously. We all want to make lots of friends but we are too scared to share what we feel to another person. We are extrovert but we cannot talk about important stuff to the people who matters. We like to be bold and strong but we are indecisive with our priorities. We all want to chase our passion but prefer safe over taking risks.  We like travelling but we still cannot go out in a cafe alone. We want promotion in life but still we are not working hard enough. We want everything to be positive but all we think about is negativity around us.

Love is not an obsession or an attachment , it's the freedom. Love is not when you are being there in all the hard times and good but it is when you really want to be there. Love is not having lots of expectations but to accept all the love and blessing one can give without having any and appreciate with your full heart and soul. Love is immortal, it can never ends with just one person or one thing. Love is not an emotion, love is the way of life. Love is when you live with someone and not just imagine living with them. Love is not when you feel like person is different or attractive, it is when you can be with a person for their heart, sarcasm, humor and flaws. Love is when you don't need to change anything within you to be with the person but to embrace all their weakness with all your heart. Love is not being all time connected but love is when even you don't talk for hours , it still feels like one constant thing in your life. Love is not making prom

If you feel like stuck, get out If you feel unhappy, get out If you have always known but just too scared, get out If you think this is getting toxic, get out. If you think it was never meant to be, get out If you feel like you are always pretending now, get out If you don't have answer to any of your questions, get out If you think life is far better than with, get out If you think you are getting weak and vulnerable, get out If you are living in false hope, get out If you are living in lie, get out If you can't make anyone happy, get out If reality is worse than your dreams, get out If you think your life is breaking apart, you need to get out If you know nothing can be done to cure this, get out If your future is at stake , get out If you have already got your closure but cannot move on, get out You don't need to answer everyone, you don't need to make anyone understand, you just need to just get out Start living again, just please get out Life is

Some basic things which we know already but still to be told by someone else to live peacefully and happily. 1. Use your time to the fullest. Explore what you always want to do or love to do. Never waste your time overthinking or delaying. 2. Love yourself- Love yourself unconditionally. Never judge yourself. You are the source of happiness and you deserve to be happy. 3. Don't get stuck in your negative thoughts. It's very dangerous and it's very easy. 4. Be grateful to everything you have or achieve. Every happiness you got is worth remembering. 5. Focus on your dreams and go to any extent to achieve it. 6. Let go of your fear. Mostly the reasons which are there which makes us fear are invalid or inconclusive. 7. Live in the present. Don't think what you had done in past or what is going to happen in future. 8. Learn from your mistake. Don't overanalyze, don't overthink just know the cause of its happening and try not to repeat it again.

Mostly people I observe are depressed nowadays. They all are dealing with the grief, loss, expectations, burdens and most evidently loneliness. Let's talk about loneliness. Loneliness is not when you don't have people around , loneliness is that when you are surrounded by all your loved one and still you feel sad or empty inside. Why people feel lonely? I am definitely not an expert but I think people feel lonely because lack of self love. Everyone goes out from their home at some point of time for job or studies, leave friends , have a bad breakup or lots of issues and they all depend on their parents, boyfriend, husband , children and friends. They get so dependent on other people for their happiness, for approval, financially, socially acceptable, parties and mostly for the sake of not doing anything alone. How can we overcome it? The only way to overcome your loneliness is to 1) Financially stable. So work hard , stay focused, achieve your dreams and a