The Muddled Mind

One of the biggest things we are dealing with in this ever-changing world is clarity. Clarity on what we want, what we wish, what we desire, and what we should fight for.  Why we are not clear on things? Do you think this is maybe because of the abundance of options? but is that really the reason why we are not clear? Or is it because there is one more option which is quitting.  My parents constantly tell me that in their whole life journey, they never had this option. They never had the luxury to give up on things. Because they always have to fight for even the smallest things. and us, the new generation 'think' we have time, we have resources and we have options.  This 'Always hustle' or 'Never settle' culture is going to bring doom to us very soon. We are never going to be happy or satisfied with where we are. And this is not about only when we are young but this attitude change is going to affect us, even more, when we get older and we have lesser options.  ...

Something in life is worth letting go of but you will only know that after you had experienced it before and we can predict the possible outcomes. Like - Arguing with parents or anyone on anything. Or arguments in general. You can't change anyone's opinion in one argument. FOMO. Trying to connect with the ‘friends’ who haven’t been there for you and you lost touch. Sad about getting a dream job but honestly not working for it. Prioritizing your career over EVERYTHING. Go to family functions because you mostly never have that option. Take up a job which you are not passionate about but good money. Seeing other people doing what you wanted to do but couldn’t. Expecting something from anyone just because you think you are closer to them. Something which is happening and we don’t have any power to change like aging, politics, natural calamities, etc. Other people’s opinions on you. It anyways shouldn’t affect you at any point in time. You are not supposed to compete with anyone for...

Acceptance and forgiveness are two things which are very important right now to get peace in this difficult times. Accept yourself and your circumstances and as well as others. You can surely bring change in your future but not in the past. And this applies to others too. You can change yourself but not the others. And also people you are going to love or you love, you should be ready to accept them whoever they are, whatever they do to fully justify your relationship with that person. Same goes for forgiveness. Humankind is full of errors. Every human makes mistakes. That's part of growing up. And when it is like that , every human should also ready to forgive and coexist. Whether you forgive yourself or the other person. Recollecting bad memories from your past or with other will only leads to hatred in your heart and now when world is in dire need of love and compassion, we can not or must not have any hatred towards anything. Spread love and only love.