The Muddled Mind

One of the biggest things we are dealing with in this ever-changing world is clarity. Clarity on what we want, what we wish, what we desire, and what we should fight for.  Why we are not clear on things? Do you think this is maybe because of the abundance of options? but is that really the reason why we are not clear? Or is it because there is one more option which is quitting.  My parents constantly tell me that in their whole life journey, they never had this option. They never had the luxury to give up on things. Because they always have to fight for even the smallest things. and us, the new generation 'think' we have time, we have resources and we have options.  This 'Always hustle' or 'Never settle' culture is going to bring doom to us very soon. We are never going to be happy or satisfied with where we are. And this is not about only when we are young but this attitude change is going to affect us, even more, when we get older and we have lesser options.  ...

Learn to be okay and happiness will follow. Be resilient. Don't regret on what you could have done or become, you can only focus on the things which are in your control now. Right at the moment, you have to make wise decisions and whatever you do, trust that it's the best thing you can do at this point. The major thing to do right now is to self care and believe. You can spend hours doubting your decisions and regretting everything or you can just Every day wake up with the resilience in your mind that whatever is happening in your life is a process and you will get through that. Externalize your failure and internalize your success. This means that whatever small or big success you have got, celebrate it. Celebrate it with your full heart and learn from all the mistakes you have done which resulted in your failure. This will help you grow in the places where you are lacking. You can bring change in you right now.

Fear is not able to do what you want to do. Fear is losing time. Fear is having regrets. Fear is not able to achieve your dream. Fear is being clueless. Fear is adjustments. Fear is being alone. Fear is that nothing is ever going to matter. Fear is not being able to understand by anyone. Fear is not feeling loved. Fear is to not being able to wipe out bad memories. Fear is to not trusting your heart again after bad breakup. Fear is to not been able to cherish good memories. Fear is to not love anything. Fear is losing love. Fear is losing imagination. Fear is feeling empty inside. Fear is losing everything what you love. Fear is losing self confidence. Fear is never finding your purpose. Fear is never been able to chase your passion. Fear is getting afraid easily. Fear is feeling dead inside. Fear is losing someone who are very close to you to death. Fear is missing something or someone which you lost. Fear is not being able to find that missing thing again. F...