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Common shitzz learnt this year

Don't fall into trap. Everything is going just as planned. Graduating,  picking out job which you don't like, quitting jobs, trying out new things,  that will make you who you are in long run.  Doesn't matter if you can't do things which other people are doing,  expensive holidays, getting married, living that Instagram life, what you are doing is more and more important.  You are experiencing life. You are an explorer.  Those things will come eventually in your lap but these things, these failures, these heartbreaks, setbacks are going to shape you up for any adversities.
So stop thinking about what you could have done better, instead think what you can do now.
And also believe in yourself. The most beautiful journey of your life lies in yourself. Either you can make it or break it.
Like for me, I may not be living my dream career,  I may not even be closer to that, on marriage and relationships point, I may be lacking a lot, on travelling and world tour and my dream places, may be getting delayed. But I know that will happen soon. I am a firm believer of that. Firm believer of believing that things are happening exactly as they are supposed to be. Making me stronger for more adversities,  making me happier for sad things, making me smarter for difficult situations.
In fact moral of the story isn't it better that our story is being stretched. People live their career, travel , meet love of their life and then that continues with no bigger ups and down and all within a set deadline and look at us, we are living every phase vividly. One step at a time. Exploring all possibilities. 

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Hey strong women, Every day is our day but if the world is celebrating us extra today, that’s great too. I know what we have gone through and damn we are strong💪 We have dealt with all the upsides and downsides of our life with our best foot forward and a big smile and that determination. May our grit and resistance to not give up hold still in us. May we support each other May we breed stronger women May we live our best May we be the strongest and happiest we have ever been May we never succumb to anyone or anything May we keep bumping into each other more often May we get all the love and support in the world May we become that strong that we don’t need all the love and support in the world May we follow our dreams before living anyone else’s dream May we keep ourselves our number 1 priority ALWAYS. Let’s promise to be the badass, the strongest, the happiest version of ourselves. Happy women’s day!