People may come and go but you and only you will stay with you forever. So stop seeking validation of your identity from others. If you are not going to be able to believe in yourself, how are you thinking that other people are going to believe you. Accept who you are because you are what you have become after what you have gone through. Noone knows your journey and can never will except you. Care less about what people has to say and care more about what you think you should have become. Love yourself and not lose yourself. The only validations matter in your life is of you and yourself. If you will start seeking it from others, you still stop your growth. As people say, noone in the world is equal, they have different perceptions and notions about life, you can not expect them to understand yours. That's how you will always end up distancing yourself from the people and the world and become all alone and then blame everything except yourself. Not the way to live a happy life. Think about it.
A person can only be loved by others if he loves himself truly and unapologetically.
A person can only be trusted of he trust himself truly.
Something in life is worth letting go of but you will only know that after you had experienced it before and we can predict the possible outcomes. Like - Arguing with parents or anyone on anything. Or arguments in general. You can't change anyone's opinion in one argument. FOMO. Trying to connect with the ‘friends’ who haven’t been there for you and you lost touch. Sad about getting a dream job but honestly not working for it. Prioritizing your career over EVERYTHING. Go to family functions because you mostly never have that option. Take up a job which you are not passionate about but good money. Seeing other people doing what you wanted to do but couldn’t. Expecting something from anyone just because you think you are closer to them. Something which is happening and we don’t have any power to change like aging, politics, natural calamities, etc. Other people’s opinions on you. It anyways shouldn’t affect you at any point in time. You are not supposed to compete with anyone for...