I don't regret past anymore. If anything else, it made me more aware and humble. I start having another kind of self respect for myself so have to go through all of that, all good and the bad and manage to get through that. It did leave some stinky leftovers but I know now I am capable of cleaning that shit too very efficiently. Although it will take time but it will happen.
Taking good memories with me and leaving bad ones behind seems like a difficult but wise way. Bad memories are like leaches which will stuck your blood and will remain there until you do something about it agressively while we tend to forget good ones behind. So what I started doing is to be grateful for all the good things in my life first thing in the morning so that I remember those times and get inspired daily. Not my original idea but read it somewhere and it made sense so trying to follow it with while heart because again you guys do what you gotta do right? 😉
Something in life is worth letting go of but you will only know that after you had experienced it before and we can predict the possible outcomes. Like - Arguing with parents or anyone on anything. Or arguments in general. You can't change anyone's opinion in one argument. FOMO. Trying to connect with the ‘friends’ who haven’t been there for you and you lost touch. Sad about getting a dream job but honestly not working for it. Prioritizing your career over EVERYTHING. Go to family functions because you mostly never have that option. Take up a job which you are not passionate about but good money. Seeing other people doing what you wanted to do but couldn’t. Expecting something from anyone just because you think you are closer to them. Something which is happening and we don’t have any power to change like aging, politics, natural calamities, etc. Other people’s opinions on you. It anyways shouldn’t affect you at any point in time. You are not supposed to compete with anyone for...