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Dilemma

After so many shady relationships with people, is it wrong to be little skeptical? I mean is it not prescribed to take precautions than a cure? Everything what is happening to me or happened to me, the least thing I want to do is to go through that process again where I have to move on from someone or trust someone. I am so so scared to break someone's heart. I know how it felt and it is not good. I don't want to be part of that process. But how will I let loose of this feeling because I am still hurting people by getting emotionally detached from them or showing them my commitment issues. It's not easy to be get closer to person but by not doing that also, you miss out on lot of people and feelings. Ughhh , I wish I had the answer. I hate that I absolutely am clueless in life. Wish someone can understand and embrace this insanity of mine or I will end up looking forward to something which is never going to happen for me. I guess procastination is really taking a toll me. Hmm.

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