Everything in life cannot be planned. You cannot plan what you want your life to be after 2 years or even 5 years. You can only work for it hard and hope for it to happen like that.
Getting influenced by digital media and create some imaginary ideal situations are never gonna make you happy. They will only create more distractions, unfulfilled desires and failures.
You can do anything you want to at why point of time. You can change your career after 30, you can wear LBD after 35, you can go to places and be irresponsible after 40 too, you can meet your soulmate after 30, there is no defined age to all the stages in life except the temporary influenced one you made it in your mind.
Even if you have to look upon to someone, choose a person closer to you, who lives with you, who inspires you everyday and not from someone from social media or books. But don't trust that person blindly. Everyone has their own journey , own ideas , own ways and own timelines.
You are your path and destiny. Only what you do will define the way of your life. Don't compare yourself with the social norms and boundaries. You will go to the places you always want to even if you might be late than your peers around but you will go eventually.