The Muddled Mind

Hey strong women, Every day is our day but if the world is celebrating us extra today, that’s great too. I know what we have gone through and damn we are strong💪 We have dealt with all the upsides and downsides of our life with our best foot forward and a big smile and that determination. May our grit and resistance to not give up hold still in us. May we support each other May we breed stronger women May we live our best May we be the strongest and happiest we have ever been May we never succumb to anyone or anything May we keep bumping into each other more often May we get all the love and support in the world May we become that strong that we don’t need all the love and support in the world May we follow our dreams before living anyone else’s dream May we keep ourselves our number 1 priority ALWAYS. Let’s promise to be the badass, the strongest, the happiest version of ourselves. Happy women’s day!

Something in life is worth letting go of but you will only know that after you had experienced it before and we can predict the possible outcomes. Like - Arguing with parents or anyone on anything. Or arguments in general. You can't change anyone's opinion in one argument. FOMO. Trying to connect with the ‘friends’ who haven’t been there for you and you lost touch. Sad about getting a dream job but honestly not working for it. Prioritizing your career over EVERYTHING. Go to family functions because you mostly never have that option. Take up a job which you are not passionate about but good money. Seeing other people doing what you wanted to do but couldn’t. Expecting something from anyone just because you think you are closer to them. Something which is happening and we don’t have any power to change like aging, politics, natural calamities, etc. Other people’s opinions on you. It anyways shouldn’t affect you at any point in time. You are not supposed to compete with anyone for

Why people are not happy anymore? Most people have a good job, a good salary or good relationships with other people, still why I don’t know a lot of people who can bravely say that they are at peace. So many motivational speakers say that happiness is not a state, it’s a way of life. You should not feel joyous for a particular moment but just because you are alive, eating, talking, or sleeping properly, you should be forever grateful and joyous. I can see people try though, some people harder than others but most of them have now found their peace at being miserable or sorrowful.  You do not have to ask people to know if they are happy or not, you can just feel in their vibe and now because of this whole post-pandemic era, you can’t even feel that because of no physical connection so they can probably post like 2-3 times on your social media with hashtags #besttimeofmylife #sohappy to prove how happy you are but it doesn’t justify the fact that they really are. So well my point is not

Relationships are so precious. I cannot stress enough the fact that everything in life can come and go and then come again but if you lose someone you love, you cannot get them back. Seeing so many losses nearby because of this pandemic and stress, it breaks my heart to know that someone has lost their son whom they have raised from the womb, someone has lost their partner whom they promised to spend all their life together, someone has lost their parents who made them who they are now as well as someone lost their siblings, mentors, and friends. The void which got created because of this loss can never be replaced with anyone or anything, people will have to just learn to live with it. So Love. Love with all your capabilities, love with all your heart, love with everything you have, and express that enough. Tell everyone you love and don't want to lose that how grateful you are that they are in your life. Do not take them lightly. You can build your career later again, you can go

The most important thing right now to look out for while joining any new company should be the work culture and the people working over there. This should be considered as a very important aspect. You work for min 9 hours in some company, you should definitely feel comfortable with the people over there who also motivate you to get over your weakness and fear and give you support at all times. So make a point to research the decision-makers of that company while accepting any job offer. Find people on LinkedIn who work in that company and ask them questions like 'How do you feel about working in this company?' 'Do you consider anyone here as your mentor and whom you can look up to?' 'Is your team and manager value your inputs and support you especially when feeling lost?' 'Are you really comfortable with your manager, enough to share or discuss problems without any hesitation or fear of #judgement?' 'Do you have a friendly relationship with the peop

Why people are running everywhere in chaos chasing the unknowns?. Phew! Why no one is stopping even for a single breath? Is it because there is so much competition all around with people who constantly need validation? All the set measures are dependent on what the world of the internet shows. Where you want to go, what do you want to eat and what do you want to be, everything is just proportional to what the new trends look like. Is this the right approach, one can wonder? This all started as a medium for fun and entertainment and now it has control over all our lives.  For example, opening LinkedIn and seeing so many peers or people updating their resumes or work experiences makes you think what you do work-wise is not even an ounce of all the abundance of opportunities. But is this feeling good? I mean doesn't it makes you unhappy and useless? We are so accustomed to ordering the best sellers in the market from all the shopping websites, eating and going out to the cafes which h